The Precursor to Success? – 4 Actions To Drive Leadership Team Accountability

It was a harsh lesson in accountability.

I don’t remember why I was late, but I was late.

I was dishevelled, probably hungover and looked like crap.

The rest of the soldiers in my platoon were on time, looked good and were all formed up.

I fully expected to be punished for screwing up, but I did not anticipate that the entire platoon would be confined to barracks for my mistake.

I was responsible for my friends and peers’ freedom losses. I knew it, and to my great horror, they knew it.

The Army knows that while individuals might be willing to let themselves down, they would rather die than let their peers down. Thus, they drive accountability to your peers.

Accountability is the glue that holds high-performing teams together.

The Sticking Point

Even with the proven success of high-performance teams with high levels of peer-to-peer accountability, leaders always seem hesitant to make it central to their organization.

Over 200 teams have taken my Team Online Assessment, and of the five critical behaviours of high-performing teams—trust, healthy conflict, commitment/decision-making, accountability, and team-oriented results—accountability is the most problematic.

Why is this?

For some leaders, there is a temptation to be popular with their Team. Who doesn’t want to be well-liked?

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Others don’t want to confront a high performer whose behaviour is terrible, even when it hurts Team results.

In some cases, hesitancy can be caused by a friend in their organization whom the leader can’t bear to confront because of their personal relationship.

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While this discomfort is real, the consequences of not facing these issues are often poor results. It is fair to say that those in your organization won’t like you if you fail.

A leader’s avoidance of accountability can start a feeling of resentment from those with different personal performance standards. And this resentment is deep.

Think about this on a personal level. Have you ever had a job where you performed well, met your numbers, had a good attitude, arrived early and stayed late while the person sitting near you rarely hit their numbers, had a bad attitude and did as little as possible?

How did you feel about it? Resentful?

Accountability in Action

Improving an organization’s ability to gain an advantage using peer-to-peer accountability is less complicated and quicker than it may appear.

The leadership Team must set an example and openly commit to holding one another accountable. As leaders model this behaviour, it will permeate the rest of the organization. For most, this causes a sigh of relief because people ultimately want to feel accomplished at work.

Once leaders commit to accountability, some simple but specific guidelines are needed for it to take root. Discussing and coming to an agreement regarding the following four questions is a great place to start:

What behaviours/actions are acceptable on the Team? Team members need to identify acceptable behaviours. Some examples include not holding back in meetings, avoiding back-channel politics, fully engaging in meetings, meeting commitments on time, and staying off email during meetings. Discussing, understanding, and committing to these expectations in advance helps team members feel comfortable calling out behaviours that detract from the team.

Where will these conversations happen? The most common question regarding accountability is, “Should it be public or private?” We’ve found that high-performing teams do this much more publicly than privately. The whole Team benefits from knowing the Team standards are being upheld, and the group often learns from observing the process.

When will we bring it up? Team members must consider the time frame for holding one another accountable. Should teams talk about it the moment an issue is suspected? A day later? A week later? However, allowing a specific commitment to go unmet over a few days can make discussing it more challenging.

What manner/style should be used to raise issues? Team members tend to be more comfortable when they know how their colleagues will deliver feedback. Will teammates be careful not to offend, or will they come across as straightforward? Will the feedback come out of anger or a desire to help?

The key to success in accountability is that everyone on a Team feels empowered to hold other Team members accountable, according to one (or more) of the four agreements. For accountability to become ingrained in the culture, exceptions should not be allowed. Additionally, no Team member should be above accountability, and all Team members, not just a select few, should be responsible for enforcing it.

Results

Accountability is essential in developing a high-performing Team.

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Behaviorally and intellectually aligned teams have constructive conflict and make firm commitments. They need to be able to push each other to stick to those commitments in the spirit of achieving results.

When teams suffer from a breakdown in accountability, results do suffer.

It may seem harsh for teams that have never received this direct feedback, but in reality, it is quite the opposite.

Holding a Team member accountable for their actions shows that you care about them enough to take the interpersonal risk to discuss the issue. When feedback is given according to the outlined agreements, it can help a Team member’s personal/professional development and the Team’s progress. Those with effective peer-to-peer accountability will avoid costly and challenging situations and freely march toward their desired results.

I have seen the power of accountability play out in several settings. In my previous careers, I was fortunate to be part of high-performing teams, and if I could point to one distinct behaviour of those highly successful teams, it would be peer-to-peer accountability.

Regardless of your organization’s size or industry, a solid commitment to accountability may be the most significant indicator of long-term success.

Closing the Accountability Gap: Practical Steps for Real Results

Throughout countless client conversations, a glaring issue persists: the lack of accountability. Missed deadlines and broken commitments are not merely individual slip-ups but a systemic problem undermining Team performance.

To fix this, we need a clear, actionable plan.

Read about a 14-billion dollar accountability problem 

Step 1: Create a Safe Space for Honest Dialogue

  • Action: Schedule private Team meetings, not public reprimands.
    • Why: Build trust and encourage open discussion.
  • Action: Set ground rules: respectful communication, active listening, and a focus on solutions.
    • Why: Prevent blame games and foster collaboration.
  • Action: Acknowledge the accountability challenge and frame it as a chance for Team growth.
    • Why: Reduce defensiveness and encourage participation.

Step 2: Facilitate a Solution-Focused Conversation

Read about the 4 F’s of having these tough conversations

  • Action: Use factual observations, not accusations. Example: “We’ve seen inconsistencies with deadlines,” not “You’re not accountable.”
    • Why: Maintain objectivity and avoid personal attacks.
  • Action: Ask open-ended questions for self-reflection: “What challenges have you faced?”
    • Why: Encourage ownership and identify roadblocks.
  • Action: Listen and identify root causes: unclear roles, workload, and communication issues.
    • Why: Address the underlying problems, not just the symptoms.
  • Action: Brainstorm solutions as a Team and empower members to develop action plans.
    • Why: Increase buy-in and ownership.

Step 3: Implement Clear, Measurable Actions

  • Action: Convert solutions into concrete, measurable steps with timelines and responsibilities.
    • Why: Ensure accountability and track progress.
  • Action: Establish regular follow-up mechanisms to monitor progress.
    • Why: Maintain momentum and address roadblocks promptly.
  • Action: As the leader, commit to nurturing a culture of accountability.
    • Why: Lead by example and reinforce the importance of follow-through.

The Result: A Culture of Accountability

By following these steps, you’ll move from being reactive to proactive problem-solving.

This creates an environment where accountability is baked into the Team, leading to improved performance and sustainable results.

Does your Team have an accountability problem?

It’s not a quick fix; it’s a long-term strategy – one your Team and your organization will thank you for.

 

 

What is worse than being a boss? Being a bridesmaid – 3 Leadership Hacks

A recent Google SEO search found that the only phrase searched for more often thanI hate being a boss’ is ‘I hate being a bridesmaid.’

My perspective on the latter is limited, but as a many-time usher and best man, I hated renting that ill-fitting, used suit.

Likely, as much as ladies hate to buy that poufy dress, they will only wear it once.

I surveyed clients to find out what they hated about being a boss:

  • 90% of new leaders felt their company failed to prepare them for the new role;
  • 42% of new managers had no idea what they needed to do to be successful;
  • 50% only took the job because it came with higher pay; and
  • 75% did not want to be responsible for people

Most organizations do a lousy job of preparing people to be promoted.

Many supervisors are thrown into the deep end to sink or swim.

They described their job as stressful and overwhelming and often regret being promoted.

If you are being considered a leader and in the absence of other supports, I would suggest you do three things:

3 Hacks to Avoid Being the bridesmaid:

 

1. Ask Your Boss For Their Performance Objectives 

Everyone has a boss – even your boss.

And everyone has been given performance objectives.

Schedule time with your boss and ask how you can support their success.

Then, take responsibility for following up to see how to work together on those objectives.

Just as you contribute to your boss’s success, your Team contributes to yours, so ensure they understand your expectations.

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2. Resolve Difficult Situations

You will face difficult situations.

Your people will have personal issues. Interpersonal conflict, and performance issues.

Do not let them fester

Commit to dealing with these issues promptly. 

Remember, you are not in this alone. It may feel like that was the case, so get support from your boss and the HR Team.

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3. Schedule time with each member of your Team

Giving instructions and then walking away, hoping that everything will be done according to your expectations, is the ultimate in management irresponsibility.

Get out from behind your desk and see what is going on.

Ask them what they are, when, whether they are on a deadline, and whether they need help.

Remember that the quality of your questions and conversations will give you all the information you need to ensure you can meet your objectives.

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Finally

Do not be passive.

You are talking about your career, success, and peace of mind.

Do not wait for direction from your boss or company, which may not come promptly or at all.

Invest in yourself through coaching, mentoring, and professional development.

What is the one thing you need to turn a trusting team to a high performing team?

What is the one thing you need to turn a trusting Team into a high-performing Team?

Most people want to be part of something big!

But how do you get there?

The most amazing experiences in my life were when our work was hard and challenging. Like carrying a sledgehammer for weeks, working so hard the inside of my eyelids were sweating or flinging myself off a cliff.

People want and need to be challenged. Just think of camping when the weather was perfect, and the equipment all worked perfectly: now remember the coldest, wettest, most miserable camping trip you were ever on. I bet the most vivid memories come from the hard and challenging experience.

Work experiences are the same. Remember:

  •  When you should have failed and still succeeded;
  • When there was a critical deadline at work, and you pulled the rabbit out of your hat and met the deadline,

I bet these memories likely feel like they happened yesterday.

When a third of a town was lost to a wildfire, I led a Team that rose to unbelievable challenges and supported 15,000 evacuees. It was an experience that no one will ever forget. But none of those people will remember the hundreds of times when the day’s work just got done.

The challenge to you as a leader is how to create those opportunities. You don’t have to create a natural disaster to do it; try to:

  • Create the chance to work on projects that stretch abilities
  • Set the highest standards for yourself and watch the people who trust you strive to live up to them
  • Build a sense of healthy competition within your teams.
  • Create an environment where people show up to work every day and do the best possible work at the minimum acceptable standard standard.
  • Allow people to take courageous risks.

Embracing the Unknown: A Journey of Experimental Faith

I love this quote from Rick Rubin:

“When we sit down to work, remember the outcome is out of our control. If we are willing to take each step into the unknown with grit and determination, carrying with us all of our collected knowledge, we will ultimately get to where we’re going. The destination may not be one we’ve chosen in advance. It will likely be more interesting.”

This idea of “experimental faith” profoundly resonates with me. It’s not about unquestioning optimism or expecting miracles. It’s about trusting the process, even when the path is unclear. It’s about courageously stepping into the unknown, armed with our experience and knowledge, and allowing the journey to unfold organically.

My Journey with Experimental Faith

I’ve experienced the power of experimental faith firsthand throughout my career. In my early days as a leader, I was weeks into a project with no clear solution. It was terrifying, especially given the tight deadlines. But I noticed that the seasoned leaders and managers remained calm. They trusted that a breakthrough would emerge, and it always did.

Years later, I encountered a similar pattern when I focused on my writing. With every project, there came a point when I felt utterly lost. The blank page loomed, and the uncertainty reared its ugly head. But again, I learned to trust the process. I kept writing and exploring, and eventually, the path would reveal itself.

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Faith Borne Out of Practice

My friend once described faith as “making it up as nobody knows the difference anyway.”

But really faith is confidence borne from practice.” The more I practiced my craft, whether consulting or writing, the more faith I developed in myself and the process. This wasn’t ‘making it up’ or ‘blind faith’ but faith grounded in experience and the knowledge that I could rely on my skills and intuition to guide me even when things seemed uncertain.

Rick Rubin’s Wisdom

Rick Rubin echoes this sentiment in his book, The Creative Act: A Way of Being. He emphasizes that experimental faith is not about expecting miracles but honing our ability to do the work and adjust as we go. It’s about embracing the unknown, trusting our instincts, and allowing the creative process to lead us to unexpected and often more interesting destinations.

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This philosophy has been a guiding principle throughout my career.

But I probably couldn’t have named it. So thank you, Rick Rubin, for naming what allowed me to embrace challenges, navigate uncertainty, and ultimately achieve outcomes that I never could have imagined. 

Rubin, R. (2023). The Creative Act: A Way of Being. Penguin Press.

I really appreciate being constantly reminded of my mistakes! 8 ways to deal with people issues.

I have made a lot of mistakes.

Some of them were pretty spectacular. While formal training, my master’s degree, and supplementary reading have taught me the theory of leadership, my mistakes have taught me more than I care to admit.

My first leadership lesson happened when I was barely six or seven years old. I was a voracious reader, devouring comics, magazines, superhero books, and war stories. The best of all were the Hardy Boys books. I wanted to read every single Hardy Boys story. One day, I went into the drugstore in our small farming village and spotted a Hardy Boys book I didn’t own. I didn’t have the money for it, so I slipped it under my shirt and walked out. On the surface, it was a small act—but however you slice it, it was stealing. 

 

When I got home, of course, I got caught. A shiny new hardcover book couldn’t just appear in our house without everyone knowing about it. I was taken back to the drugstore to confess to the store owner. My dad waited outside while I went in. I made my way to the rack of books, returned the stolen book to its rightful place, and left. Dad asked if I had spoken to the owner. Keeping my backside in mind, I told him the truth. 

 

I was turned around on the spot and, once again, escorted back into the store to “face the music.” I admitted my wrongdoing and apologized. To my surprise, the store owner only scolded me gently. More importantly, he thanked me for owning up, returning the book, apologizing, and acting “like an adult.” 

 

The trip back home felt like my own green mile. I was sure I was heading to the gallows, but it was over—my dad left it at that. Looking back now, I cannot recall ever hearing about the incident again. 

 

The lesson I learned from that ordeal was this: when something is over and dealt with, it’s done.

Managing Issues Effectively

As a leader, your most frequent challenge will be managing the issues that inevitably arise when dealing with people. Try to remember—and consistently encourage others—to cooperate. Ultimately, your value as a leader will be judged by the performance of the people who make up your Team. And their performance will reflect your total personality, attitude toward life, and particularly your approach to people. Your success or failure will be a direct result of how well you align your organization’s goals with the career goals of your people and deal with any friction caused by misalignment.

The following suggestions will help you achieve results:

  1. Focus your attention chiefly on results rather than the activities you think will get you there. Everything should be about results.
  1. Plan and organize effectively.
  1. Communicate objectives properly, with time targets, established measurement systems, and designated accountability.
  1. Establish performance expectations so all concerned will be focused and will know how their performance will be measured.
  1. Communicate a “results-oriented” attitude to encourage people to develop self-reliance and confidently achieve their goals.
  1. Motivate people to their peak achievement.
  1. Be creative and help others develop their creative potential.
  1. Track all progress so that what is planned is achieved.

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How Do You Measure Up When It Comes to Issues Management?

Read each statement or question below.

On a scale of 1 to 5, with 1 meaning “never” and 5 meaning “always,” mark an “X” where you think you are today.

Then, mark an “O” where you would like to be.

Consider the above article and commit to one thing you can do to improve your score.

1.     You look for the critical factor(s) that must be changed before anything else can be changed or acted upon to unearth the real problem.

1                        2                      3                      4                     5

2.     You make sure that your problem-solving objectives reflect the organization’s objectives.

1                        2                      3                      4                     5

3.     You consult all who should be consulted before making a decision.

1                        2                      3                      4                     5

4.     You evaluate your decisions by predetermining their possible impact on people and things.

1                       2                      3                      4                     5

5.     You predetermine how long the organization is committed to your decisions.

1                        2                      3                      4                    5

6.     You ensure your decisions do not violate established rules, policies, procedures, good ethics, or morality.

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7.     After defining and analyzing problems, you develop as many alternative solutions as possible to widen the range of choices before coming to a final decision.

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8.     You are skilful at timing. You determine whether or not the situation is something urgent requiring quick action or whether long, consistent effort is needed.

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