Prisoners, Vacationers and the Willing: Making Training Something People Actually Want to Do

It’s an unfortunate reality: when we announce a new training session, employees’ reactions often range from dread to outright resistance.  The hesitation is understandable; people are busy, and they’ve usually had mandatory training that was far from valuable.

Today, I want to address this directly: overcoming resistance to learning—because, let’s be honest, the word “training” often carries baggage.

You see, getting people to embrace a new skill isn’t just about winning a debate; it’s about making the learning experience so valuable, so integrated, and so engaging that resistance naturally fades away.  While understanding specific objections is key (and something my consulting work explores in depth!), There are basic structural changes you can implement right now to reduce overall resistance.

Here are the essential steps to foster a culture where learning is embraced, not endured:

Organizational Must-Dos: Setting the Stage for Success

These are the fundamental, big-picture actions that demonstrate to your entire team that learning takes precedence over punishment.

  • Align Learning with Real Impact: We could teach a thousand things, but if the material doesn’t directly address the most critical skills that drive organizational success, it feels like a distraction.  When learning is clearly linked to solving a business problem, the “why” becomes instantly compelling.
  • Clarify and Champion Expectations: Leaders must be prepared. They need to clearly communicate the value, purpose, and expected application of the learning. If the boss can’t champion it, why should the employee prioritize it?
  • Create Behaviour Matches (Show, Don’t Just Tell): Want a new skill to stick?  Have leaders model it.  When employees—especially those in a reporting role—see their boss or high performers actively demonstrating the new behaviours, they begin to believe the learning is genuinely essential to success.
  • Make the Experience Exceptional: This should be obvious, but unfortunately, it isn’t.  We’ve all experienced poor, one-sided lectures disguised as training. If you want people to engage, you need to ensure the session is a meaningful, valuable, and engaging learning experience.
  • Focus on Learning, Not “Training”: I use “training” here for clarity, but I encourage you to adjust your internal language. Human beings are innate learners.  We associate “training” with mandatory, dull sessions, and using the word ‘learning’ taps into that natural desire for growth and knowledge.

Interpersonal Connections: Making it Personal

Even the best organizational systems require personal connection. Leaders and communicators must ensure each individual recognizes how this learning benefits them.

  • Show Them Personal Relevance: This is where effective instructional design intersects with personalized marketing.  Help people understand not only why learning is crucial to the organization’s success, but also why it is vital to their role and career development.
  • Connect the Dots to Personal Value: People care about the company, yes, but they also want to know: “What’s in it for me?” Clearly link the new skills to career advancement, efficiency, reduced stress, or greater impact.  Individuals need to see the personal benefit of attending and applying what they’ve learned.
  • Maintain Quality in Every Interaction: Positive past experiences are the best way to reduce future resistance. High-quality content, facilitation, and follow-up all matter.
  • Follow-Up is Not Optional: Training is an event, but learning is a process.  If the session stands alone, the relevance quickly fades.  Consistent follow-up from leaders, coaching around the skills, and ongoing application support are the non-negotiables that make learning stick.

Now What?  Stop Making Prisoners of Your Learners

By implementing the organizational and interpersonal actions, you will significantly reduce overall resistance.  The remaining individual concerns can then be addressed through targeted, empathetic conversations.

I frequently observe three types of participants in any learning environment:

  • Prisoners: They are told to attend and are waiting for the clock to run out.
  • Vacationers: It’s a nice day off from their desk, so why not?
  • Willing Learners: They are open-minded, eager to acquire new knowledge, and prepared to apply it.

Our goal should always be to shift people from feeling like prisoners to becoming willing learners. Aim to foster genuine buy-in, not just compliance.  Transferring new knowledge into sustainable workplace behaviours is already very challenging: doing so with a room full of resentful participants is nearly impossible.

Need assistance in building your internal learning system to go beyond mere compliance and foster genuine cultural adoption. That’s precisely what I focus on.  I collaborate with organizations to redesign their learning strategies, link skills to business results, and empower leaders to drive change.

Want to chat about how my consulting services can transform your team’s approach to learning?

 

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